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organizations

  • National Coalition for Sexual Freedom

    • A coalition of almost 100 groups, clubs and businesses, including mental health practices and law firms.

  • National Leather Association International

    • A contemporary BDSM organization that focuses on educating and supporting alternative lifestyle relationships.

  • Center for Positive Sexuality

    • Addressing social issues through sex positive research and education. The center publishes a free academic journal which features many studies and academic articles on BDSM.

  • The Science of BDSM

    • A wide-ranging collection of studies, articles, essays and posts on the science behind BDSM.

  • BDSM Studies

    • This blog is a decade old, but features a fair number of overviews of different studies on BDSM.

  • Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality

    • While this journal has not been published since 2015, this page offers links to an extensive archive of many BDSM studies, essays and articles.

social sites

  • Fetlife

    • The world’s biggest social networking sites for kinksters, featuring their profiles, thoughts, photos and videos. Also pretty much the only place to find information on local BDSM communities.

  • Alt.com

    • A BDSM dating, Fetish and Kink site.

  • BDSM 101

  • Fetish

    • A dating site for BDSM people to find each other.

podcasts

popular websites

  • Kink Lovers

    • Lots of helpful and thought provoking kink content.

  • Submissive Guide

    • One of the most extensive and informative guides to D/s online.

  • DomSubLiving

    • BDSM and Kink Tips. Offers a free beginner’s guide on pdf.

  • Kink Weekly

    • BDSM Photography, Information and Erotica. A lot of different voices featured.

  • Kinkly.com

    • Short, lively pieces on every kinky subject under the sun.

  • Bondage Gazette

    • A new blog created by the kinky porn site Wasteland.com.

  • BDSM Café

    • More geared toward fiction, erotica and movies, there is still a lot of great information on this site.

  • Slutty Girl Problems

    • This site is packed with content about healthy, raunchy sex in general, with plenty of tips and advice for the practice of BDSM.

  • Cara Sutra

    • A blog, product reviews, shopping, erotica — this site is a feast of everything sex, and a lot BDSM.

favorite blogs

  • The Spanking Blog

    • A lot of fun pictures (some historical), cartoons, art — all about spanking of all flavors.

  • Ayzad

    • This Italian blogger has an English translation and some pretty deep thoughts about BDSM, as well as an empowering manifesto, and a diverse list of books he recommends. His tagline is: The guide for explorers of unusual sex. Sold.

  • Coffee & Kink

    • Product reviews, erotic stories and many interesting thoughts.

  • Submissy

    • Deep thoughts and provocative photos from the point of view of a married submissive wife. She seems to touch on all the subjects that interest me.

  • Venus O’Hara — Orgasm Activist

    • A fun site about down and dirty sex, from a cheeky writer. Dozens of pieces on BDSM.

  • Master’s Pleasing Bitch

    • I like the matter-of-fact voice of this writer, her honesty about the ups and downs of submission.

  • ML Slave Puppet

    • From the first post I read, I resonated with the some of the deep thoughts of this Masochistic Lesbian Slave. With self-revelation and psychological insight, she cuts down to the core of D/s.

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