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Reservations are all tied up for this below-radar theater production. “Reflections,” a roughly 2½-hour-long show that features a four-course dinner and displays of rope bondage, is serving up entertainment with a side of kink. [...]

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On an unassuming Saturday night in June, I stepped into a scene inspired by Eyes Wide Shut: masquerade masks, attendees in various states of dress, and flowing alcohol poured by a half-naked bartender. [...]

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Cuffs, plugs, and vibrators — oh my! A new survey finds all the time sitting inside during the coronavirus pandemic is making many adults friskier than ever before. [...]

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Our family often took the train into Philadelphia, but as we rode across the bridge to attend the city’s Pride parade five years ago, my wife’s leg bounced with a nervous jitter. She squeezed my hand, worried that she might run into a colleague or be harassed by a stranger. My wife is trans, and wasn’t out at the time, so she typically only expressed her authenticity in the privacy of our home. [...]

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The City Council candidate whose campaign flagged footage of his own BDSM session to The Post said Monday that he was trying to get ahead of a political rival plotting to use the clip against him — and that he’s not ashamed of his sexual proclivities. [...]

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There’s really no way to say this coyly. On Wednesday’s episode of ICYMI, Slate’s new podcast about internet culture, hosts Rachelle Hampton and Madison Malone Kircher talked about piss play. As in urophilia. As in … getting turned on by urine. A new TikTok trend, dubbed #PissTok, provides a surprisingly nuanced lens into how Gen Z is using pee to destigmatize sex online. [...]

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New research has uncovered several psychological factors related to interest in BDSM (bondage, discipline, submission and sadomasochism). The findings, which have been published in the scientific journals Sexuality Research and Social Policy and Archives of Sexual Behavior, indicate that such practices are not pathological in general. [...]

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Rough sex is one of the most popular sexual fantasies. In fact, when I surveyed 4,175 Americans about their fantasies for my book Tell Me What You Want, I found that most people had fantasied about some type of rough sex before. [...]

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The word “kink” is a slippery term, and depending on whom you ask, it can have varying, even competing, definitions. But while speaking in the aggregate about all kink practices can be difficult, [...]

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Knife play, choking and rough sex have found a home on FreakTok, but the line between sex positivity and sexual violence is becoming blurred. [...]

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A hacker took control of people's internet-connected chastity cages and demanded a ransom to be paid in Bitcoin to unlock it. "Your cock is mine now," the hacker told one of the victims. [...]

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While for many, quarantine has been a time of extra stress of the sex-killing kind (say, hospital workers or parents with kids trapped at home), others have found extra time to explore their fantasies. And many are trying on BDSM for size. [...]

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During the pandemic, the BDSM dating app, KinkD has reported a nearly 40 percent increase in active daily users looking for kink and fetish partners. The app also reported their top 10 cities for kink-seekers. Liberal New York and Los Angeles top the list, of course, but three cities in supposedly “conservative” Texas also showed up in the top ten — Dallas, Houston and San Antonio. [...]

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The British online shopping site OnBuy asked 2,361 people over the age of 60 about their sexual habits and desires, and a whopping 63 percent claimed an interest in “trying” BDSM, with a good 56 percent expressing interesting in D/s power exchange. [...]

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This news story about the recent allegations of the Falwell’s interesting sexual “hobby” suggests a BDSM component. If he wasn’t such a finger-wagging figure of the Religious Right, perhaps his sexual interests would have been considered no one’s business. His bedroom activities certainly wouldn’t have, and shouldn’t have, cost him his job. [...]

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